“Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.”
During the course of the book there are a 100 attraction principles and i thought i would share some with you. Some made me think, others put things into great perspective, others i have practiced and THEY WORK, and some are needed as a reminder during almost every relationship, or just before it becomes something more.
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2. A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her.
3. If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.
4. The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him.
5. If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.
6.A bitch gives a man plenty of space so he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage. Then..he sets out to trap her in his.
7.He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
8. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take him time to appreciate who she is.
9. Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it.
10. When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.
11. Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.
12. Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery.
13. Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.
14. A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life.
15. You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.”
16. The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.
17. The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.
18. When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
19. A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.
20. When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.
21. Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.
22. Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings.
23. When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll go out of his way and think nothing of it. He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t have done for anyone else.
24. The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
25. If you make it too obvious that you’re excited to get something, some people will be tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
26. If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date.
27. A man feels he’s won, or conqured a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand. At which point, he begins to get bored.
28. A “yes” woman who gives too much sends the impression that she belives in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness.
29. Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.
30. He simply won’t respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him.