Watch this. truly inspiring. There is a lesson in your pain.
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We all have our battles that we face every day, dragons that need slaying and often in the process this may leave deep routed scars. Life is tough but so are you darling. These scars are a documentation of what you have been through and although it doesn't mean the battle is over, if you have this far there is still hope.Stop fighting with yourself and learn to love every little bit of yourself. You need to start filing that void with things that make your soul come alive, things that can bring you peace and perhaps even a tiny bit of joy. To be happy is a hard job. One we have to sign up for and really commit to. One we have to sweat and Labor for so we can achieve perhaps just a moment of solitude, hold on to that bit of happiness when you have it and remind yourself every time that when you want to run away, when you want to quit, when you see no more light. . . That it's possible to have that moment again. I hope that one day you realize what a special and rare gift you are to the world and may you start living and loving your life, as you can create and shape it into whatever you want it to be...you have infinite power inside of you. The fight might now be over but you have strength inside of you that can overcome this. Hold on and fight. And please don't give up.
So today I just wanted to say thanks.
When I started this blog, come to think of it now, I am not exactly sure WHY?!. Perhaps to express myself, let others realize that you cannot sweep your struggles or mental disorders under the rug, even though they go unnoticed by those that do not understand. You allowed to feel, you allowed to admit to yourself something is wrong and I wanted to let this blog trigger those realizations and manifest into a voice. A loud voice. I know I didn’t start this with the hope and expectation to get comments like “wow you inspire”, or, “this blog has really helped me”, I didn’t even expect others to open up to me. But with the few messages I have received I would like to say thanks. I have not conquered this, I just know that at the end of the day I still choose life over death, so that makes us victors of the day. I have my bad days and when I receive those short messages from some of you, you just lift me up. You touch the places that are sometimes dormant, thank you. Sometimes I go through seasons in my life where I too am tired, feeling totally used up, and then someone writes to me, and it just gives me hope. It motivates me to continue this blog and to continue pushing forward. You too help in my healing. Thank you. She's the places that
she has a desire to visit. She's the pieces of quotes that are plastered in ink in her favorite books. She's the road trips she hopes to go on. She's the beautiful characters that mesmerizes her in her favorite books. She's full of dreams, and i hope they one day come true. -Alexa Evangelista So i would like to start something interactive on my blog. You anonymously send me a message on weebly or email
[email protected] May it be something you struggling with, something you have overcome, something you are grateful for, anything you feel you need to share that you cannot easily and openly share with others. It will remain anonymous but people will be able to comment and offer you some hope and guidance. We as a community of people that have our struggles, but choose to overcome and become victors every single day need to stick together and be there for one another. However, sometimes we stuck, we feel we are drowning and i would like to create something on this blog to remind you that you not alone. NOONE is alone in their struggles!!! PLEASE: send me a message send me a email or i am going to start a forum called "Not alone" at the top and i am praying that you would be brave enough to share your stories. This blog is here to inspire and help, but what if we started coming together. Two heads are better than three. Three better than four. Thank you I recently read this quotes online:
" People talk about depression like it is something weak. But coming out of it and through it, to the other side, Alive, is the strongest and bravest thing you will ever do." “Actions create consequences. Consequences which produce new worlds, and they’re all different. Where the bodies are buried in the desert, that is a certain world, where the bodies are simply left to be found, that is another. At some point you will have to acknowledge the reality of the world you are in. There is not some other world. This is not a hiatus. I would urge you to see the truth of the situation you’re in. That is my advice. It is not for me to tell you what you should have done, or not done. The world in which you seek to undo the mistakes that you made is different than the world in which they were made. You’re now at the crossing, and you want to choose, but there is no choosing. There’s only accepting. The choosing was done a long time ago.[...]"
"Do you know the words of Machado? A beautiful poet. Machado was a school teacher and he married a young beautiful girl, and he loved her very much. And she died and then he became a poet. Machado would have traded every word, every poem, every verse he ever wrote for one more hour with his beloved and that is because when it comes to grief, there is no rule of exchange. Grief transcends every value. A man would give up whole nations to lift it from his heart. And yet with it, you can buy nothing. Because grief is worthless.You continue to deny the reality of the world you live in. You are at the crossing. At the understanding that life isn’t going to take you back. You are the world you have created.”" I recently watched the movie "The counselor" At the end one man says this to another. When i searched for this quote i came upon a man's response to this. "I am a man who stands at the crossing. Make no mistake, there’s a difference between the crossing and the crossroads. The crossroads is a juncture. The crossing is the point of no return. I stand now past the point of no returning. I have made my choices. There is no going back.." This is what i think We have all been there. Choices lead to a certain reality. If we picked A it would of created one reality. Should we have picked B, another. But we are here now, living this reality, no turning back, all we can do is accept it. Acceptance you say! Yes it is very difficult, i too struggle with his concept. I would trade so much just to of gone back, so that my current reality could of turned out differently. SEE..."A man would give up whole nations to lift it from his heart. And yet with it, you can buy nothing. Because grief is worthless.You continue to deny the reality of the world you live in. You are at the crossing. At the understanding that life isn’t going to take you back. You are the world you have created.”" Why can't we accept it? Because it hurts. Acceptance would mean to let go; let go of the pain, our mistakes, our struggles we have carried for so long.....a comfortable place we have found ourselves in for months perhaps years...... what have the above quotation meant to you regarding your life and journey? This is a amazing book. I have read it 5 times already and i am on my 6th. As stated: bitch means simply “Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.” During the course of the book there are a 100 attraction principles and i thought i would share some with you. Some made me think, others put things into great perspective, others i have practiced and THEY WORK, and some are needed as a reminder during almost every relationship, or just before it becomes something more. ENJOY! 1. Anything a person chases in life runs away. 2. A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her. 3. If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it. 4. The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him. 5. If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom. 6.A bitch gives a man plenty of space so he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage. Then..he sets out to trap her in his. 7.He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner. 8. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take him time to appreciate who she is. 9. Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it. 10. When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything. 11. Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact. 12. Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery. 13. Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves. 14. A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life. 15. You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.” 16. The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself. 17. The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless. 18. When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention. 19. A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you. 20. When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem. 21. Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun. 22. Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings. 23. When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll go out of his way and think nothing of it. He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t have done for anyone else. 24. The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be. 25. If you make it too obvious that you’re excited to get something, some people will be tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face. 26. If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date. 27. A man feels he’s won, or conqured a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand. At which point, he begins to get bored. 28. A “yes” woman who gives too much sends the impression that she belives in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness. 29. Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them. 30. He simply won’t respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him. |
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