We bare a different name: WARRIORS. "
"Even in times of trauma, we try to maintain a sense of normality until we no longer can. That my friends, is called surviving. Not healing. We never become whole again...we are SURVIVORS. if you are here today...you are a SURVIVOR. But for those of us who have made it through hell and back and are still standing?
We bare a different name: WARRIORS. "
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She needed a hero and that is what she became. These battle scars don't mean the damage never existed but it means it no longer controls her life. These scars are a documentation of mistakes made in trying to overcome them. Along these nerve endings you will find the history of her. Her story that has not yet ended. Most people believe happiness is about gaining something, but it’s not. It’s all about getting rid of the darkness you accumulate. She is a warrior and a fighter. And she survived because the fire inside her burned brighter than around her.
So i would like to start something interactive on my blog. You anonymously send me a message on weebly or email
[email protected] May it be something you struggling with, something you have overcome, something you are grateful for, anything you feel you need to share that you cannot easily and openly share with others. It will remain anonymous but people will be able to comment and offer you some hope and guidance. We as a community of people that have our struggles, but choose to overcome and become victors every single day need to stick together and be there for one another. However, sometimes we stuck, we feel we are drowning and i would like to create something on this blog to remind you that you not alone. NOONE is alone in their struggles!!! PLEASE: send me a message send me a email or i am going to start a forum called "Not alone" at the top and i am praying that you would be brave enough to share your stories. This blog is here to inspire and help, but what if we started coming together. Two heads are better than three. Three better than four. Thank you She's so beautiful
yet so sad Always saying no one will ever love her. and yet when somebody tells her that they love her she runs and hides silly girl, they love you YOU JUST DON'T LOVE YOURSELF! I recently read this quotes online:
" People talk about depression like it is something weak. But coming out of it and through it, to the other side, Alive, is the strongest and bravest thing you will ever do." “Actions create consequences. Consequences which produce new worlds, and they’re all different. Where the bodies are buried in the desert, that is a certain world, where the bodies are simply left to be found, that is another. At some point you will have to acknowledge the reality of the world you are in. There is not some other world. This is not a hiatus. I would urge you to see the truth of the situation you’re in. That is my advice. It is not for me to tell you what you should have done, or not done. The world in which you seek to undo the mistakes that you made is different than the world in which they were made. You’re now at the crossing, and you want to choose, but there is no choosing. There’s only accepting. The choosing was done a long time ago.[...]"
"Do you know the words of Machado? A beautiful poet. Machado was a school teacher and he married a young beautiful girl, and he loved her very much. And she died and then he became a poet. Machado would have traded every word, every poem, every verse he ever wrote for one more hour with his beloved and that is because when it comes to grief, there is no rule of exchange. Grief transcends every value. A man would give up whole nations to lift it from his heart. And yet with it, you can buy nothing. Because grief is worthless.You continue to deny the reality of the world you live in. You are at the crossing. At the understanding that life isn’t going to take you back. You are the world you have created.”" I recently watched the movie "The counselor" At the end one man says this to another. When i searched for this quote i came upon a man's response to this. "I am a man who stands at the crossing. Make no mistake, there’s a difference between the crossing and the crossroads. The crossroads is a juncture. The crossing is the point of no return. I stand now past the point of no returning. I have made my choices. There is no going back.." This is what i think We have all been there. Choices lead to a certain reality. If we picked A it would of created one reality. Should we have picked B, another. But we are here now, living this reality, no turning back, all we can do is accept it. Acceptance you say! Yes it is very difficult, i too struggle with his concept. I would trade so much just to of gone back, so that my current reality could of turned out differently. SEE..."A man would give up whole nations to lift it from his heart. And yet with it, you can buy nothing. Because grief is worthless.You continue to deny the reality of the world you live in. You are at the crossing. At the understanding that life isn’t going to take you back. You are the world you have created.”" Why can't we accept it? Because it hurts. Acceptance would mean to let go; let go of the pain, our mistakes, our struggles we have carried for so long.....a comfortable place we have found ourselves in for months perhaps years...... what have the above quotation meant to you regarding your life and journey? This is a amazing book. I have read it 5 times already and i am on my 6th. As stated: bitch means simply “Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.” During the course of the book there are a 100 attraction principles and i thought i would share some with you. Some made me think, others put things into great perspective, others i have practiced and THEY WORK, and some are needed as a reminder during almost every relationship, or just before it becomes something more. ENJOY! 1. Anything a person chases in life runs away. 2. A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her. 3. If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it. 4. The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him. 5. If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom. 6.A bitch gives a man plenty of space so he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage. Then..he sets out to trap her in his. 7.He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner. 8. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take him time to appreciate who she is. 9. Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it. 10. When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything. 11. Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact. 12. Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery. 13. Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves. 14. A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life. 15. You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.” 16. The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself. 17. The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless. 18. When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention. 19. A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you. 20. When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem. 21. Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun. 22. Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings. 23. When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll go out of his way and think nothing of it. He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t have done for anyone else. 24. The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be. 25. If you make it too obvious that you’re excited to get something, some people will be tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face. 26. If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date. 27. A man feels he’s won, or conqured a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand. At which point, he begins to get bored. 28. A “yes” woman who gives too much sends the impression that she belives in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness. 29. Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them. 30. He simply won’t respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him. Lately i have been so scared. Scared for my future. Scared because of my current relationship with a guy. Scared when i have my "off" days, scared because my only friend, my best friend, is leaving soon for a job which is hours and hours away. Then i came upon this video. It didn't take my fears away, but at least put things into perspective. Fear robs us of our dreams, of amazing possibilities, it steals from us, it takes away, it leaves us crippled with a deep and dark loss, an abyss, a pit of nothingness. “Promise Yourself
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel that there is something in them To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile. To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble. To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words but great deeds. To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you.”” — Christian D. Larson, Your Forces and How to Use Them |
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